Moving on VS Letting Go

A lot of people kept asking me kung paano mag-move on. Siguro dahil feeling nila ako ang mastermind ng moving on. Kadalasan nagmamagaling ako. Ang dami kong sinasabing kaeklatan. Keme keme lang naman yun.




Pero ngayon ko lang narealize kung ano talaga ibig sabihin nung move on.


'Pag tinanong ulit ako, hindi na ako magmamagaling. Dahil may awesome na akong sagot pang-beauty pageant.




Ang tanong: "Paano mag-move on?"




Ang sagot kong malupit: Ginagawa mo na ngayon. Buhay ka pa. You're moving on with your life right now. You're obviously alive kasi kinakausap mo ko. And you're trying your best to live your life without him. Asking me for help is a good sign na nakaka-move on ka na. Kasi gumagawa ka ng paraan para umayos buhay mo. Actually maayos naman buhay mo. Isip mo lang nagugulo dahil sa heartbreak na yun. It's all in the mind. All the what ifs. All the regrets. Nasa isip lang lahat yun kaya apektado lahat ng tumatakbo sa buhay mo. The mere fact that you're thinking of getting back on track is a sign na you're moving on. Yung hiding behind fake smiles to convince other people that you're okay...believe it or not, that's actually YOU TRYING TO MOVE ON.




It's easy to move on. Moving on is just simply trying to live your life again without him. Hindi moving on ang problema mo. Alam mo kung ano?








Letting go...




Kung moving on ay sinusubukan mong mabuhay ng wala siya. Letting go is literally leaving it all behind. Posibleng naka-move on ka na pero di ka pa nag-lelet go. 




NOT LETTING GO means that you're still holding on to the memories and the heartaches.




NOT MOVING ON means you're making those memories and heartaches ruin your life.




Can you see the difference?








Ako aminado ako, madali sakin mag-move on. Dahil madami naman akong dahilan para mag-move on. Hindi porket madali sakin mag-move on ay hindi ko pinapahalagahan yung relasyon. Ibig sabihin lang nun, pinahahalagahan ko sarili ko. Dahil alam kong there's more to life than your love life.




Pero aamin ako...






hindi ako basta basta nag-lelet go.




Dadalhin ko ata hanggang burol 'tong nararamdaman ko sa kanya. Masakit. Pero kaya ko ba mabuhay ng wala siya?




KINAKAYA. That's how you move on.




-A blog entry for Ramonne Rodriguez