Mr/Ms Universe?

Marami na siguro sa inyo ang nakarinig na may isang transgender na pinayagan maging candidate for Ms. Universe.

Question...

Kung pwede na ang transgender sa Ms. Universe, pwede na ba ako sa Ms. Gay?

There are certain fields na hindi pwede salihan ng natural-born male sa mundo at may mga certain fields naman na hindi rin pwede salihan ng natural-born female. Gets niyo ba? Most especially pageants.

Ito lang yung logic...

Kung sumali ng Ms. Gay si Shamcey Supsup... malaki chances niya of winning diba? The point of that pageant is to find the closest thing to a beautiful female.Unfair for the candidates na bakla naman talaga na sobrang nagpakahirap magmukang babae para sa pageant na yun at isang tunay na babae ang mananalo. Nasaan ang point ng pageant na yun? Miss Gay ang title, hindi Miss Universe.

Kung may butch na sumali sa pageant for men. As in macho siya at gwapo and has a big chance of winning... wouldn't that be unfair as well? 

I have nothing against transgenders or gays or anyone who is part of the LGBT. In fact, I love them. Most of my friends are lesbians and gays at lumaki ako sa environment na puro ganun. Tanggap ko yung orientation na yun at mas komportable ako makipag-usap sa kanila kesa sa mga straight na babae o lalaki. I love being with them and alam nila yun.

The mere fact that the transgender had a LOT of surgeries to obtain her feminine look is not a good message to the viewers. It somehow promotes that if a natural-born male could turn into a beautiful female through cosmetic surgery, then women should get surgeries to obtain the look they want. It would create more insecurities among women na mas maganda pa sa kanila yung lalaki. Kahit alam naman natin na madaming surgeries din na ginagawa yung mga babaeng sumasali sa pageants but we can barely notice it kasi we still have that belief at the back of our minds na they were probably born as beautiful women talaga.

I personally believe that the decision is a ground-breaking decision because it promotes gender equality. Equal rights para sa lahat ng genders and orientations.


Pero...


Sabi nga ni Ms. Quiambao, "Just because it's popular doesn't mean it's right." and she's referring to this particular issue.




Ironically, gender equality ang nilalaban dito pero why does it feel unfair para sa babae? Gender equality it is but is it right? I know mas may advantage ang tunay na babae sa pageant for women pero when women get cosmetic surgery, it's a bad thing kasi hindi natural beauty and society puts her down? Pero when transgenders get cosmetic surgery it's like some sort of miracle kasi ang ganda ng pagkakagawa?




And for Canada, parang sinabi rin na wala na bang natural-born female na worthy na magrepresent sa country niyo? Isn't that an insult to the part of many beautiful women in your country?

This decision will be the jurisdiction of all gender equality issues. Lahat pagbabasehan ito. Any gender could join any pageant.

Again, I have nothing against gays. 

Sa point of view ng gays, kayo ba papayag kayo na sumali ang napakagandang babae sa Miss Gay? 

Twenty years from now, paano kapag half ng Miss Universe ay transgenders na. So may 50% chance na manalo ay natural-born male? So ang title na ng pageant should be...

Mr/Ms Universe.

Quotable quotes from yours truly

Ito ay koleksyon ng mga kalokohan at katarantaduhan na pinagsasabi ko sa Facebook, Twitter o minsan kahit mag-isa lang ako...

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Behind every bitch is a girl who got tired of being broken.

Behind every douchebag is a group of nice girls waiting to be bitches.

Behind every successful woman is an obedient boyfriend.

Behind every slut is...well, every guy in the world. Sometimes in front, on top, at the bottom, etc.

Time is precious. Waste it wisely.

That awkward moment when you think I care but I really don't.

A perfect guy is like a unicorn. It looks amazing and has some magical powers that makes you dream for more...but it doesn't exist.

Farting or burping is the best ice breaker to an awkward moment.

That awkward moment when you want to hold your fart in.

Love is like scratching your head. Sa umpisa masarap. 'Pag nasobrahan, masakit na sa ulo magmumuka ka pang unggoy.

One of the best kisses from a boyfriend is a random kiss on the forehead. It's the kind of kiss that makes you feel like everything's gonna be okay.

Ang lalaki ay parang cholesterol. Bad for the heart.

Ang buff na lalaki ay parang Magnum ice cream. Overrated. And his stick has some sort of design but it is probably useless.

Ang tunay na machong lalaki ay kayang magpakalma ng machong babae.

Unicorns were probably the first to be called dickheads.

Who run the world? Boobs boobs.

The best part of a kiss is the time when your half an inch away from his lips and your noses touch. That's where the fireworks blow up.

Ang lalaki parang diet lang 'yan. Not every program is right for your body type. Only a few will work out but you have to be faithful in your diet program.

Sa karamihan ng babae, basta may alak... may dahilan para i-text si ex at i-deny kinabukasan.


It's amazing how much I don't care.

Cheating on a good girl is like throwing a way a diamond and picking up a rock.


Lahat naman ng test madali. Madaling ipasa or ibagsak.


Ang lalaking may ibang mahal ay parang kulangot. Kahit makuha mo sa non-stop mong panunungkit, wala naman silbi.


A love from the past is like ice cream. It's cold...but sweet.


Life is like a dick. The more it gets fucked, the more it gets harder.

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So far 'yan pa lang naaalala ko e. Hehehehe. For more quotes, like niyo na lang yung useless kong Facebook page.

http://www.facebook.com/pages/Kumareng-Aning/184219471657712

It's complicated

Talking about complications in a relationship...


Sa Facebook or kahit wala pa itong social networking site na 'to, uso na ang mga katagang "It's complicated" sa ibang relasyon.

Bibigyan ko kayo ng mga dahilan kung bakit may ganitong so-called "relationship status".


Overthinking

Habit na ng babae ang mag-overthink.

Ito ang dahilan kaya hindi tayo maintindihan ng mga lalaki.

Kasi mga simpleng bagay... ang daming cheche bureche.

Madalas natin ito ginagawa 30 minutes bago tayo matulog o kaya sa isa't kalahating oras na byahe mo pauwi.

Yung may wind effect ka pa sa mukha habang naka-titig sa labas ng jeep na sinasakyan mo. May Ipod ka pa or MP3 na parang feeling mo background music ng buhay mo. Parang sa sine. Hindi ka aware puro polusyon na ang nahagip mo.


Ang dami dami mo pang inisip.

Hindi naman masama mag-isip. Mabuti nga yun. At least ginagamit mo utak mo. Pero sa ibang babae (or is it safe to say sa karamihan ng babae?)...


Overthinking causes...


Expectations

The more you think, the more bizarre your thoughts will be...


Ang sabi nga nila...

Expectation causes disappointment.

We can't help it. Kahit na pigilan namin mag-expect, the thought of trying to control it makes it uncontrollable.

Personally, I don't believe in that saying...

This is what I believe in...

Foolish expectation causes disappointment.

Nasa sistema nating mga babae ang maghangad ng higit pa sa pinapakita at nakikita natin sa mundong ginagalawan natin. Kaya tayo mahilig sa mga chick flicks at kaya bumebenta pa rin sa atin ang mga locally made films na sobrang predictable na ng story. Bakit predictable? Kasi yun yung ineexpect niyo mangyari and the film industry continuously satisfies your expectations.

Ano nga ba ang pinagkaiba ng dalawang kasabihan? Ang pangalawang kasabihan ay nagbabalanse ng katotohanan sa mga pinapangarap mo. Hindi ka pwedeng mag-expect kung wala ka naman ginagawa para makamtan yun.

Kumbaga, hindi ka pwedeng manalo sa lotto kung hindi ka tumataya.

Hindi ka rin pwede mag-expect kung alam mo naman sa sarili mo, may pagkukulang ka. Instead of dreaming all your life for a perfect relationship, try being the perfect partner. Don't make your partner perfect. Wala kang kontrol sa kanya and you'll definitely lose your mind and eventually...your partner.



Minsan sa taas ng expectations nating mga babae, may tendency tayo na bigyan ang mga lalaki ng...


Mind Games

Magtatampo ka kasi hindi nameet yung expectations mo. Bagsak siya sa mind games na inihaing mo sa utak niya.

Yung mind games mo naman, alam mo namang ikaw lang makakasolve dahil walang clue yung partner mo. Tapos iisipin mo 'pag hindi niya na-gets yung mind games mo...


HINDI KA NA NIYA MAHAL?

Pag binigyan mo naman ng clue at nakuha niya after a long time... iisipin mo naman...

WALA SIYANG EFFORT INTINDIHIN KA?

Guys try. Well, I think they do. But honestly...

They do not know what the hell you're thinking about.

Matapos ang mind-boggling mong mind games, dito na papasok ang tumataginting at award-winning na...
















It's complicated


To tell you the truth, EVERY RELATIONSHIP IS COMPLICATED.

Mapa-relasyon mo sa nanay mo , sa tatay mo, sa kapatid mo, sa kapitbahay mo, sa childhood sweetheart mo, kay Patrick Garcia, sa kama mo o kay Spongebob. Love is not simple. It's meant to be complicated. No one has a definite "how to" pagdating sa pag-ibig.


Yes, love is complicated at kasama na sa komplikasyon ang relationship.

But if we're talking about RELATIONSHIP STATUS?

It should not be complicated. It's either you're in a relationship, married, widowed, divorced or... SINGLE.

But not complicated kasi lahat ay komplikado. What makes yours different?


Ang iba sa nagcclaim na complicated ang relationship nila is ganito ang sitwasyon...

-si lalaki gusto lumandi habang mahal pa niya si babae. Si babae ay mahal din si lalaki kaya nagpapaka-martyr at laging andiyan pag nalilibugan si lalaki. (or the other way around)
-si lalaki ay may karelasyon na iba (o minsan kasal pa) at si babae naman ay pumapayag maging kabit. (or the other way around)
-parehong si babae at si lalaki ay gusto ng "SPACE". Ang overused term para lumandi sa ibang nilalang ang magsyota para marealize nila na walang tulad magmahal si babae o si lalaki nila.
-ayaw ni lalaki o ni babae ng commitment dahil sapat na daw ang "LOVE".
-si babae o si lalaki ay umaasa pa sa ex.


Is it really complicated?

It's either you're single or you're not.

It's a status.
A state.
A condition.
A situation.

Love is complicated. But your status shouldn't be. It's either you're in a commitment or you're not.

If you are, try your best to love each other. And if you're not...


Love him or leave him. It's your choice. But believe me, don't go crying over a guy/girl if he/she leaves you. You settled for complications...



then don't be surprised with the consequences.

In case he/she fucks around? Sweetie, you have no right to stop him/her. Hindi kayo diba? But are you willing to settle for that kind of treatment? On the other hand, if he/she stays faithful to you despite the lack of commitment, that's a keeper. If you wait long enough... maybe he/she will be ready to be committed to you and your relationship.


But with these complications?

All maybes are more vulnerable to broken expectations.

How to lose a guy

So I had a previous post on how to lose a girl before. That's more reliable than this post kasi babae ako and I talked to a variety of women before I made that post. And yung mga nakalagay dun, it would not make guys initially lose a girl but those are the things that they would actually (and surprisingly!) consider before they would take any potential romantic relationships further. The little things? Those are the things that women put meaning to.


This blog post? Let's see...


Why would a girl in her right mind would want to lose a guy?


Kakapanood ko lang ulit nung chick flick na "How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days" mga 20 minutes ago. The leading lady basically did everything para ma-turn off yung guy to make a first-hand experience sa research niya for an article for the magazine she's writing for. The whole idea of the article was to let her readers know "What NOT TO DO to make a budding romantic relationship work"


There is no definite "how to" on losing a guy.


If you tried everything your friends say about losing a guy...


The crazy antics, the weird set-ups and the psycho tantrums... and he's still there?


Why would you want to lose him in the first place? Maybe you should give him a chance and give yourself a chance.



May nakikita siya sayo na hindi mo nakikita or pinapansin kaya siya nagsstay.Kahit na magpaka-bitch ka...



he's still there.



Baka nabulag? Pero he's fully aware kung ano ginagawa mo sa kanya. Pero para sa kanya, hindi yun enough para umalis siya.



You are worth the fight.



Maraming lalaki ang ganito kahit papaano. Pa-chicks ka lang at malakas ka lang maginarte kaya fnfriend zone mo siya.




A lot of women often rant about not finding a decent man.


E abnoy ka ba? Andiyan na. May matino na. Nirerespeto ka. Inaalagaan ka. Patago kang minamahal...



Sa kampon ka pa ni Satanas lumandi.



Hindi na kasalanan ng mga lalaki yun.


Baka ikaw na. May sayad ka rin e.

Friends with the Ex?

Being friends with your ex???


I just think it's bullshit.





You don't need to be friends with your ex. You can't get the same friendship back. Some people say it can work...


but it's definitely not the same.




You can't talk like you haven't kissed her/him. You can't talk like you've never loved her/him. You can't talk like you've never dreamed of walking down the aisle with her/him.





Most people want to try it because it's so hard losing the person who meant the world to you just because you ended your "more than friends" relationship.


The only thing you could offer to your ex is...


to be civilized.


Say "hi!" when your paths cross. Don't be retarded. And go to his/her funeral in case he/she dies before you.


Besides, you have lots of other friends. Losing him/her won't kill you. You're still alive and reading this blog...right?



Do not be friends with your ex again ESPECIALLY when you just broke up.


Mine asked and insisted if we could be friends. Saying some kind of crap about treasuring his friends blah blah blah.


You know what I said?


"Friends? That's bullshit. I don't want anything to do with you anymore. We're better off as strangers. Besides, I love Raf. He deserves the respect."






I just love Raf too much. I can't risk our relationship just so my ex could bug me from time to time.